Fairy tales, explained for parents

Why Fairy Tales Are Important for Child Development

Fairy tales help kids build empathy, resilience, and imagination. Here’s what they learn—and how to pick stories that match your child’s age.

Fairy tales aren’t just “old stories.” At their best, they give kids a safe place to explore big emotions, scary situations, and moral choices—then watch the hero come out okay. That’s powerful practice for real life.

5 benefits fairy tales can offer

  1. Emotional vocabulary: kids name feelings like fear, jealousy, pride, and bravery.
  2. Resilience: characters face problems and keep going.
  3. Empathy: children practice seeing different perspectives.
  4. Moral reasoning: stories make “choices and consequences” understandable.
  5. Imagination: the brain gets to build worlds, not just consume them.

Why personalization can make the lesson stick

When your child is the hero, it’s easier for them to connect with the character’s choices. Instead of watching someone else be brave, they’re practicing bravery in story form.

How to choose the right fairy tale for your child

  • If your child wants adventurous energy, start with Peter Pan.
  • If they love magical “wish” stories, try Aladdin.
  • If you want a warm journey story, The Wizard of Oz is a classic.

For age-specific recommendations, see our age guide.

What if the story feels “too scary”?

Some classics have intense moments. You can keep the benefits without the overwhelm by choosing calmer stories for bedtime, reading together, and pausing to talk about what’s happening (“What do you think the hero should do next?”).

Use fairy tales to build a reading habit

One simple trick: make the nightly book predictable. Same time, same place, same short ritual. For practical routines that work for real families, see how to create a reading habit.

Pick a classic and preview it

See 4 personalized pages—then decide if it’s the right fit.